Prostitutes on dating websites
For background, I am a recovering alcoholic, have been sober almost 2 years.
To say I was a good wife prior to my sobriety would be a lie, I was not in so many ways.
I still see my therapist, but need to talk to women who have been through this and find out how they cope. The hardest part for me is giving up on the fantasy life I thought we had, all the while knowing deep down we didn’t.
With my past sexual abuse, and his sex addiction (i’ve always known he masturbates a lot) our sex life has never been healthy, and with the baggage of that, my drinking and the new revelations I don’t think I have the energy, the want, the desire to try and work this out. Maybe we will end up stronger with better communication, a deeper relationship, but after reading your site and others, it seems recovery is not very prevalent, and I truly don’t know if I can get past this.
I feel isolated because I don’t have anyone to talk to about all of this.
My husband and I had much more of a parent child relationship for many years, it certainly was not a healthy relationship.